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What does a healthy Enneagram 3 look like?

What does a healthy Enneagram 3 look like?

Type Three in Brief Threes are self-assured, attractive, and charming. Ambitious, competent, and energetic, they can also be status-conscious and highly driven for advancement. They are diplomatic and poised, but can also be overly concerned with their image and what others think of them.

What do Enneagram 3s need to hear?

The most basic desire of the Enneagram Type 3 is to feel valued and accepted. They tend to seek accomplishment and admiration, usually expressing this by setting big goals and doing what it takes to succeed in order to earn validation or praise from those around them.

What does Enneagram 3 go to in stress?

In states of stress, Threes take on the characteristics of an unhealthy and apathetic Type Nine. Fearing potential failure and humiliation, Threes can become highly anxious and isolate from those who are able to give them support and helpful feedback. When stress progresses, they become opportunistic.

How do you motivate an Enneagram 3?

Being able to motivate people….How to get along with 3s:

  1. Leave them alone when they are doing their work.
  2. Give them honest, but not unduly critical or judgmental, feedback.
  3. Help them keep their environment harmonious and peaceful.
  4. Don’t burden them with negative emotions.
  5. Tell them you like being around them.

Who Should an Enneagram 3 marry?

Type Threes commonly pair well with Nines. However, their image-oriented personality can hinder vulnerability and authenticity. In a Three-Nine partnership, the effacing Nines can support the Threes’ ambitions and, most importantly, innately accept them for who they are, not what they can do.

Do Enneagram 9 and 3 get along?

This is a fairly common pairing. Nines bring enormous support, encouragement, and a sense of pride in the Three’s accomplishments. Threes can feel that with the Nine behind them, they are able to be themselves, explore their potential, and become the best mate, friend, or professional that they can be.

Which Enneagram type is most common?

The most common Enneagram couples.

  • Type Fours commonly pair well with Fives, Nines.
  • Type Fives commonly pair well with Ones, Twos.
  • Type Sixes commonly pair well with Nines.
  • Type Sevens commonly pair well with Nines.
  • Type Eights commonly pair well with Nines.
  • Type Nines commonly pair well with Ones, Twos.

Which Enneagram has most anxiety?

for Enneagram Type Sixes. Remember that there is nothing unusual about being anxious since everyone is anxious and much more often than you might think.

What should an Enneagram 3 marry?

Which Enneagram type is rarest?

Type 8
According to an Enneagram Population Distribution study, the rarest Enneagram is Type 8: The Challenger. Then the Investigator (Type 5) and the Helper (Type 2) are second and third. The most common is the Peacemaker (Type 9).

Which Enneagram types go best together?

The most common Enneagram couples.

  • Type Ones commonly pair well with Twos, Sevens.
  • Type Twos commonly pair well with Threes, Eights.
  • Type Threes commonly pair well with Nines.
  • Type Fours commonly pair well with Fives, Nines.
  • Type Fives commonly pair well with Ones, Twos.
  • Type Sixes commonly pair well with Nines.